Saying goodbye aint easy

May 22nd 2009: I was just checking my facebook after returning from a meeting. A pop up screen appear at the bottom . it was the chat screen. At first I was glad as it was good friend from Thailand whom I planned to meet in four month's time. We chat for a while and finally she broke the news she has closed her tagged account, which she was very active and where we share tag and other activities. It would also appear she will not be able to connect as often as before though we will still remain friends. somehow I dont sense that. I think it is a polite way of saying goodbye. I found it hard to accept. Friendship built over a period of time ,then suddenly it's goodbye. I hope it is just over reacting as I valued her friendship, just like a value any other friendship.Well only time will te

An almost misadventure at Lata hammer.

After weeks of waiting , the day finally arrived. Sunday 17th May, 2009 I got up at 3.30 am even though my alarm was set to ring at 4.45 am. after day could not sleep, so went on line for awhile. nothing much to do on the net, so I washed up and get ready for my friend to pick me up to meet some of the others who need to car pool as well. Had our breafast at a 24hrs mamak restaurant at Bukit Tinggi,klang. An hour later and we were on our way to meet up with the rest waiting at Tesco , Ampang. Next stop a a petrol station to get some light snack and filled up the car and we were on our way to Lata Hammer, Bentong

Wedding is quite an expensive affair these days.

over the weekend I attended the bachelor nite dinner and on the following morning witness the wedding ceremony, including the tea ceremony of my nephew( my sister's second son)Later in the evening his wedding dinner. This is the second time,the host does not accept Ang-pows. The first time I came across this rare situation was the wedding dinner of the elder brother of this nephew. It was a grand wedding, just like the first one. On the way home my wife remind me on the budget for our son who has reach the ripe age for marriage. so I ask how much and she said at least 50K. This thought went through my hea

Happy Mother day Mum.

my mum:- She's got a heart of Gold!No words can express enough how much my mum have done for us. I confess I was no angel and must have given my mum a hard time when I was young. I loss my dad when I was 3 , so my mother was not only mum but was dad to me as well. Though we were poor, but mum did what she could to raise 3 of us. I will try to recall some of the sweet memories I had as a child. Mum would save some of the goodies like cakes , whenever she attend a function or if her colleague gave her a treat and bring back home for us. Of course I always looked forward to the carnival day held by the factory

my visit to the dentist .

I did not plan to visit the dentist today. But after my hair cut I just took a stroll and before I knew it I was at the dentist's clinic. Well since I was already at the door step might as well get over it.I was suppose to make the visit last year but have put off till today. Thank goodness there was not any holes that need filling. Imagine what pain I will have to endure if I have to get that fixed.so I end up just doing scaling.Since I was wearing denture the doctor recomend that I do a bridge . And the cost ? rm 2000.00why do such thing cost so much. I wonder if I could make a tax claim for this?It sure beats wearing the denture. I think I will wait till october when I get my money from my EPF. Till then I will be stuck with my denture.